Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts

Thursday, 25 December 2014

Song of the Day: The Carol Medley from A Muppet Family Christmas


Someone recently asked me what my favourite Christmas film is and, for some time, I simply couldn't think of one. Then I realised that I do have one... thanks to The Muppets!
And no, shockingly enough it isn't A Muppets Christmas Carol. 
It's from a film which I believe is called A Muppet Family Christmas and I had it on video tape as a kid. The Muppets gang all go to visit Fozzy's grandmother and the house ends up full of Muppets, the Sesame Street gang and even the guys from Fraggle Rock. Here's a little song from the film:



Wednesday, 10 December 2014

Song of the Day: What If by Kate Winslet (from Christmas Carol: The Movie)

Kate Winslet surprised us all with this Christmassy song 'What If' and when it was released I totally fell in love with it. I've not actually seen the film it's from but I've always loved the song.
Enjoy,


Thursday, 4 December 2014

Things To Consider Before Bringing A Pet Home

Christmas is now officially just around the corner. As we roll through into December it's important to remind people of the troubles of giving animals as gifts. Every year people give animals, typically kittens and puppies, as gifts to their loved ones. Already there has been news of animals being imported in squalid and unsanitary conditions ahead of Christmas this year. This is a problematic practice as these animals aren't always well received or later go neglected. Some owners don't think everything through. Whether you've decided to give someone a pet for Christmas or you're hoping to welcome a new animal to your home in the near future, these are important questions to ask yourself before you get a pet. I want animals to have homes. In writing this article I do not want to stop people getting pets altogether. I just want to make sure they're going to homes that are prepared to care for them where they will be loved and not neglected. Having a pet can be such a joyful and rewarding experience. That said, many people rush the decision to get an animal without thinking about the big picture and asking themselves some important questions before bringing a furry friend into their home.

Can you afford to support them?

Pets cost a decent amount of money. Can you pay, for example, £10 per week on food? What about pet insurance? Are you able to pay for pet insurance too? There's also the cost of getting your pet spayed or neutered and possibly even micro chipped. You'll have to fork out on animal accessories, regular flea and worm treatment, any kind of vet treatment. Younger pets may need various vaccinations which would be irresponsible of a pet owner to not provide. What would you do if suddenly you lost your job? Can you support an animal if the worst happens? It's important to always consider why you want a pet in the first place and then considering how much it will cost.

Do you have a suitable home for them? Will there be space for the pet in your home?

Indoor pets need space to roam. Cats will want to go outside. Dogs will want to run around. Do you have space in your home for a pet? Is your small apartment really the right amount of space for a large, energetic dog to bounce around in? Are your things going to get broken? If you live in an inner city apartment, how are you going to manage having a cat? Do you have enough space for one? If you're in an inner city apartment with a dog, will you have time to take it outside to go to the bathroom regularly? If not your life will involve a lot of cleaning up after their bowel movements. If you live in a rented property it is also CRUCIAL that you check your rental agreement to find out if you're allowed to have a pet where you currently live. It is best to discuss the decision with your landlord as this may incur fees and changes to your lease agreement. Are you going to move from one apartment to another? With a pet your choices will be limited because not all landlords allow animals in their buildings. This will leave you and your pet struggling to find a new home. Also, do you travel a lot? Animals don't want to sit at home alone. They will love you and therefore will want to spend time with you. If you work late hours and leave them home alone, they may get bored or even depressed. When you go on holiday you need to consider who will care for them too. It's such a big responsibility that you have to prepare for.

Is your pet for a child?

Buying a pet for a child can be wonderful. Seeing their eyes widen as they meet their pet for the first time could make you heart sing. It can be problematic though. Many people use pets as a way to teach their children about responsibility. This can, in some cases, lead to animals being neglected. This often occurs with small pets like hamsters. It is NOT the job of these animals to teach your children responsibility. It is YOUR job as a parent or guardian to teach them this. Even if it is a pet for your child, you must take an active role in caring for it. You will most likely be funding the existence of such an animal. If you are the head of the household then the responsibility falls to you as much as every other person in the house.

Consider animal size - can you provide for their needs?

Huskies have always been popular due to their wolf-like aesthetic. The only problem is that huskies are big dogs and therefore have certain needs. They have a lot of energy and need a great deal of attention and exercise. If you're looking to get a big dog, do you have the time to walk them for at least and hour every day? If not, have you considered a smaller dog that would be happy with a fifteen minute walk? Your dog needs to be walked every day. Yes, every day. You've got to consider if you even have time for a pet. If you're thinking of getting a horse, do you have the land, space, equipment and experience to care for one? Owning a horse is very different to owning a domesticated house pet. If you get something like a snake, are you prepared to feed it dead chicks, rats or live insects? Those tea cup piglets don't stay small forever. Are you willing to have a full grown pig walking around your house? (No, your spouse doesn't count.)

Allergies

Pets are bought as gifts every year only to find that the person receiving them is allergic. The animals are then given up for adoption, resold and shuffled from one place to another. It may well be worth finding out in advance if anyone suffers from such allergies and looking into hypo-allergenic breeds.

What if you have children?

You have to plan ahead for this. It's all well and good adding a pet to the family but if a baby is thrown into the mix that can be too much to juggle. Some worry that the pet could harm the baby. This is another common reason as to why animals are re-homed and it's not good for them to be palmed off to another owner as soon as they become an 'inconvenience' in their first home. Some animals that come from shelters aren't compatible with children and can be aggressive although they're fine around adults. This is just another important factor to consider.

Do you have the patience to care for a long haired animal who needs a lot of cleaning up after?

Sure, huskies are stoic and wolf-like. Yes, Persian cats have the potential to make you look like a wicked Bond villain. Of course pomeranians are giant bags of cuteness. That said, they are long haired animals. They will need plenty of grooming. When I had a dog he wasn't even a particularly long-haired breed but he needed regular grooming and that costed quite a bit. It's not just for aesthetic reasons. Some dogs with long hair can end up with dirty, matted fur if left to their own devices. Some animals will shed hair all over your home. Are you prepared to run around in an attempt to clean all that up?

Where is your pet from? Are you supporting kitten/puppy farms?

This is the darkest part of the Christmas pet trade. As previously mentioned, on top of pre-existing puppy and kitten farms in the UK, animals are being shipped in from abroad to make a huge profit.
Don't support this awful industry. Life is not a commodity. If you want a pet then I urge you to look into animals currently in shelter awaiting homes. If you must get a pet for Christmas make it a gift for you and for that animal by giving them the gift of a forever home.

Wednesday, 25 December 2013

Recommended Reads... with Mistletoe on top.

Well it may be Christmas but there's still time for Recommended Reads. What is recommended reads?
It's a segment where I throw together some things I've seen lately on the internet to share them with you. This way, if you're bored on Christmas or checking out this blog from a shiny, new device then you've got cool things to check out. Let's get started, shall we?
  • Not having the best Christmas? This blog, Gives Me Hope, will remind you of the good in the world. Why not send in examples of things that give you hope?
  • One of my new favourite things, totally new this week, is the twitter account Stephen Fry set up for a cuddly toy bear in his dressing room. I totally love seeing teddy bear tweets popping up. Check it out here.
  • Some really cute stuff happened around the world this year, so check them out for smiles.
  • Christmas often brings out our crafty side. This blog shows you how to make cool pastas at home - even confectionery pasta. In fact they just have a bunch of cool recipes so you should check it out
  • HuffPost article: 25 Secrets to a Lasting Marriage
  • 17 Cool Books from 2013 if you got book tokens for Christmas or want something good to read.
  • Or read this article about one crazily rude bride and her conversation with a strapped-for-cash friend. You won't believe how callous the bride is to her friend.
I hope you're having a Happy Christmas wherever you are <3
Well I'm off to London to celebrate Christmas with my extended family. Though I've not had much money lately I've crafted my gifts. I've made some really beautiful, fragrant soap and confectionery items. I hope that you're having a lovely Christmas, I certainly am. My main present was a new phone since my last one was dying. I now have the new iPhone 4s and have spent the whole morning asking Siri inappropriate questions. I absolutely love the routine and silly traditions my family and I have for this day including wearing pants on our heads and my sister always racing to open her presents with absolutely no shame. I hope you're all having a wonderful Christmas. I'm thinking of you. I'm thankful for you.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!
I hope you're having an amazing day full of good things. Be kind to others today and be kind to yourself. I'm sending you love and positivity on this day of all days. 

Saturday, 21 December 2013

Wednesday's Story: Why Pets Should Not Be Gifts.

Christmas, we are told, is a time for giving. We rush around trying to find gifts for our loved ones and from films we're all too familiar with the woofing or purring present that comes out as the main gift. Across the world thousands of animals may be given as Christmas gifts. Many of them are later dumped when the responsibilities of pet ownership become too much or when they stop being cute. It may seem like a nice gesture but it is, of course, problematic. To discuss this matter further I'd like to share a story close to my heart...

I only went to the store to buy rat food. At the time I had a trio of fancy rats that needed feeding. When I walked into the pet supply store I was pleasantly surprised to see a cage featuring four kittens, three black and one black and white, all set up near the till. The pet supply store sold pet food and accessories mainly but the owners, being registered and licensed breeders, on rare occasion had a litter of cockapoo or chihuahua puppies bred from their own dogs that sold for high prices and to good, pre-approved new owners. I was surprised to see kittens in store, especially since they were so small, at only a few weeks old I knew that they were too young to be separated from their mother. They were lacking in proper socialisation and could sit comfortably in the palm of my hand. The store owner told us that she was looking to rehome the kittens after they had been dumped in a nearby wheelie bin for an unknown amount of time. They had been starved, dehydrated and left in the dark. Since black cats are so hard to rehome due to stigma and silly superstitions she was doing all the work in rehoming them herself. This way she could give them around the clock care until they found their forever homes. Someone clearly had been so heartless and so unwilling to care for these kittens that they thought to abandon them even if it meant their death. Since the store owner knew nothing of their background she was giving the kittens free to a good home. We left ten minutes later with a cardboard box and a newly adopted little black kitten. 
We named the little black kitten Wednesday since black cats are unlucky and Wednesday is said to be the unluckiest day of the week. Also we're big fans of The Addams Family. It had been a fateful Wednesday morning, however, when she and her siblings had been found and rescued from the wheelie bin and so I suppose Wednesday as a day held some luck for this unlucky cat. We noticed quite quickly that she couldn't stand being picked up. She'll rip your hands to ribbons before she'll let you hold her. She freaks out if your face even goes near her. It's hard because we don't know what made her act like this or what difficulties she may have had to endure in those first few weeks of her life before she was dumped.

I want you to think of this if you're contemplating giving someone something that is alive for Christmas. <strong>Animals aren't gifts.</strong> They are living things and it is a privilege to live alongside them. If you are introducing an animal to a home this Christmas then I urge you to think of what happens after Christmas day. After those first excited cuddles are over will the animal still be cherished? Will it be walked and cleaned up after? Will you be able to keep it should your circumstances change or are they likely to change soon? Will you treat that animal with the same love and compassion when it's old and suffering from skin irritations, hip dysplasia or an uncontrollable bladder? Animals are a joy but they come with a shed load of responsibilities. If you're bringing an animal into your home or giving it as a gift, is that animal going to be loved and appropriately cared for every day for the rest of their lives? Also, if you're thinking of getting an animal friend, why not consider adopting a pet rather than buying one? I've written a previous article on the matter.


It has taken two years for Wednesday to even be comfortable and affectionate after her adoption. If she had been given to someone without the patience and understanding to work with her then I truly don't know what would have happened to her. She could have been dumped again or, like so many other animals, left to live in a shelter in favour of kittens curled up in pet shops. Wednesday is now at the stage where, though not usually affectionate, she picks her moments and suddenly/desperately wants attention and affection and I make it my business to stop what I'm doing and cuddle her. It is rare but it is special. When she comes to me and is comfortable enough to let her guard down for a cuddle it feels like through me she is forgiving all the bad she's had to overcome and living alongside her has been a privilege. Please just remember that a pet is a lifelong commitment. They have their own personalities, needs and problems and they all deserve someone who will respect the responsibilities of pet ownership. Christmas, they say, is a time for giving so if you are giving an animal a home let it be a good home and let it be forever.

As I write this now Wednesday is making it hard for me to type. She's rubbing her head against my fingers.
Pet me she says...
Who am I to say no? These small moments when my cat comes to me for cuddles feels like a small victory every time.

Sunday, 15 December 2013

Christmas: A time for giving.

As Christmas draws near it's very easy to get focused on ourselves and our families. We think of the food we'll eat, the presents we'll receive. It's very easy and convenient to forget how many people have a hard time at Christmas.

Please try to do random acts of kindness or get involved with charities over the festive season to give back to society and do some good at this wonderful time of the year.
Peace and love.

Thursday, 5 December 2013

My partner got us Netflix so we are gonna marathon as much of Breaking Bad in the next month as physically possible.

MERRY METHY CHRISTMAS

Sunday, 1 December 2013

Winter Is Here!

So it's the first of December!
This is the day where people begin counting down until Christmas.
I'm a bit of a cynic but something about Christmas really does bring out the optimism in me. Something about this time of the year makes everyone so much nicer to each other. We're snuggled up in our homes for warmth, we're thinking more about the joys of giving to others and we often go back to our roots and spend a lot more time with our family. I'm looking forward to seeing family and having some sort of delicious (pescetarian) Christmas dinner later this month.
I'm hoping for snow on Christmas and that this year on December 25th something good happens for everyone, that they get something that they really want in life.

Sunday, 15 September 2013

Song of the Day: River by Joni Mitchell

I'm in bed with a cold so I feel very ill and rather sorry for myself. In the end I ended up listening to Joni Mitchell last night. It seemed like a good musical choice. Not in a "Love, Actually" weeping to myself way, I focused on some of her more cheery numbers. That said, this is a Joni song I'm yet to feature on the blog. If you know what the song is about then it's actually kind of heart breaking. It's about Joni Mitchell missing the child she gave up for adoption when she was young around Christmas and feeling a sense of regret for missing out on raising her. I totally suggest looking it up as it had a kind of happy ending and the two eventually met and got to speak to each other. 
Actually Joni Mitchell's "Blue" album is my most recent iTunes download. 
Enjoy,