Remember this: a baby name is for life.
When you choose a baby name this is something that you have to like for the rest of your life. Naming the baby after a film character you're currently infatuated with may lose meaning if, in a few years time, you realise you actually don't like the film as much. If you're lucky enough to have time to really plan before having children why not consider a name for some time to ensure your opinion of it does not change.
Think about the initials of you future child.
You may select beautiful names for the child but if you name your child something like Warren Ewan Emerson his initials will be W.E.E.
This also goes for seeing how your kids names go together. Having a son called Samuel and a daughter called Ella may seem lovely until you call out "Sam and Ella!" and it sounds like you're yelling about salmonella.
Try to pick a name you and your partner/co-parent will be happy with.
Don't feel pressured into using a name you don't like by your partner or because there is a family name you're expected to give the child. You'll have to repeat this name thousands upon thousands of times over the years in good times and bad times. It may as well be a name you like to say.
If you need inspiration there are loads of baby name websites, phone apps and even youtube channels to give you inspiration. May you and your children have a happy life together.
When I was a child I was annoyed at having an uncommon name because I got a bit of teasing (going to a mainly White British working class school). As I got older I began to love my uncommon name as it stood out (plus a couple of practical advantages like people actually being able to google my name and get me). That saying, my parents naming my brother a name that begins with the same letter has caused problems as we have the same initials. Just yesterday, my brother was sent a tax return form that was meant for me and I had to spend a frustrating time on hold to inland revenue to sort it out. So maybe sibling similarity is something else to consider!
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DeleteLike... I hate when parents give twins really similar names like "Jasper and Casper" or "Aleeah and Aliannah"
Just because they are twins does not mean they are the same person. They deserve their own identities.